Amy’s Story

I need to do whatever I can to stay healthy, so that I can be around for my kids. Amy.

I have a BRCA2 gene mutation like my dad. That, along with my family cancer history and Ashkenazi Jewish heritage, puts me at higher risk for breast cancer. For years, I have been on an evolving path to lowering my risk.

Relief Through Preventive Surgery

I learned I was at higher risk for breast cancer at age 31 through genetic counseling and testing. For the first several years, I had frequent breast cancer screenings to manage my risk.

However, at each screening, I feared I would find out I have cancer. So, I decided to pursue a double mastectomy (surgery to remove both breasts). I feel grateful for this opportunity to lower my breast cancer risk further.

Talking with My Kids About My Risk

Amy with her children and her dog

For me, being a previvor means having difficult conversations with my kids. I have talked to them about my double mastectomy, explaining how my genes increase my breast cancer risk and that surgery can help keep me healthy.

I am honest with my kids and try to use terms they can understand. I hope this helps avoid worrying them. I plan to wait until they are adults to talk about their genetic testing options.

Asking Questions to Improve My Care

Amy serving as a nurse practitioner

I feel I am a more involved patient because of my background as a nurse practitioner.

I have a “whole body” approach to my health—or as I put it, “I’m more than my breasts and ovaries.” I ask my health care providers how different decisions could affect other parts of my health.

For example, I asked if removing my ovaries could cause me to experience early menopause. I feel asking these questions is an important step in getting the best care possible and recommend other women do the same.

Page last reviewed: September 27, 2021