Parent Training in Behavior Management

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Key points

  • Behavior therapy is an effective treatment for attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) that can improve a child’s behavior, self-control, and self-esteem.
  • Behavior therapy is most effective in young children when it is delivered by parents.
  • When parents become trained in behavior therapy, they learn skills and strategies to help their child with ADHD succeed at school, at home, and in relationships.
  • Talk to your child's doctor about behavior management therapy.
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Types of therapy

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Talk with your child's healthcare provider about the benefits of parent training in behavior therapy.

Talk with your child's healthcare provider about behavior therapy

Parents have the greatest influence on their young child's behavior. Learning and practicing behavior therapy requires time and effort, but it has lasting benefits for the child. Ask your healthcare provider about the benefits of parent training in behavior therapy for young children with ADHD.

What type of therapy is recommended?

Only therapy that focuses on training parents is recommended for young children with ADHD because young children are not mature enough to change their own behavior without their parents' help.

Some therapists may use play therapy or talk therapy to treat young children with ADHD. Play therapy provides a way for children to communicate their experiences and feelings through play. Talk therapy uses verbal communication between the child and a therapist to treat mental and emotional disorders. However, neither of these has been proven to improve symptoms in young children with ADHD.

Parent training in behavior management

Parent training in behavior management has been shown to be an effective treatment for children with ADHD and is the recommended first choice in ADHD treatment for children under 6 years of age. Parent training in behavioral management is used to help change problem behaviors by building parenting skills, improving the relationship between parents and their child with ADHD, and helping children manage their own behaviors. A therapist skilled in behavior management can help parents understand how ADHD affects their child.

Others (including childcare providers, preschool teachers, and other caregivers) can also help to manage the behavior of preschoolers who have ADHD by becoming educated about the disorder and by being trained in behavioral techniques.

What can parents expect in behavior therapy training?

Did you know?

Parent training in behavior management is also known as "parent behavior therapy," "behavioral parent training," or simply, "parent training."

Finding a therapist

If possible, families should look for a therapist who focuses on training parents. Some therapists will have training or certification in a parent training program that has been proven to work in young children with ADHD. Therapists may also use strategies like those in proven programs.

What to look for in a therapist

Find the right therapy for your child

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Therapy is most effective if it fits the needs of the specific child and family. A helpful first step is for families to think of what questions or problems they are seeking help for. Learn more about therapy and finding a therapist.

Questions to consider when looking for a therapist:

Does the therapist...

  • Teach parents skills and strategies that use positive reinforcement, structure, and consistent discipline to manage their child's behavior?

  • Teach parents positive ways to interact and communicate with their child?
  • Assign activities for parents to practice with their child?
  • Meet regularly with the family to monitor progress and provide coaching and support?
  • Re-evaluate treatment plans and remain flexible enough to adjust strategies as needed?

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